14 tips to keep your dog relaxed while you're away
Leaving your dog home alone can be tough — for both of you. I remember the first few times I left my Ridgeback pup alone, I came back to shredded couch cushions and a guilty face. It was clear: he was bored and anxious. Over time, I found a few tricks that made things easier (and saved my furniture). Here’s what’s worked for me — and might help you too.
Make the View Worthwhile
Dogs love to watch the world go by. If you’ve got a window with a decent view of the yard or street, set up a comfy perch — a dog bed or pillow works great. My dog could sit there for ages just watching squirrels or cars. Bonus tip: placing a bird feeder outside the window turns it into “dog TV,” but keep the window closed if your dog gets too excited around birds.
Keep Their Brain Busy
Boredom is the enemy. Puzzle toys and treat-dispensing toys are lifesavers. I rotate a few so they don’t get old — and I stuff one with peanut butter and freeze it for a long-lasting challenge. Hide a few treats around the house before you leave, too. It turns your departure into a fun game of “sniff and seek.”
Safe Space = Happy Pup
Whether it’s a playpen or a dog-proofed room, giving your dog a secure area to relax helps reduce anxiety. Fill the space with familiar toys and soft bedding. If you’re using a pen, make sure they can still see out — dogs hate feeling cut off from the world.
Leave Some Background Noise
Silence can make a dog feel isolated. I usually leave the radio or TV on, especially something with nature sounds or calming background music. Some dogs even enjoy watching other animals on screen — just make sure your TV is out of tail-swatting range.
Try a Pet Cam
Installing a pet camera was a game-changer for me. It gave me peace of mind and let me check in on my pup during the day. Some cams even let you talk to your dog or toss treats. It’s not quite the same as being there, but it helps.
Consider Doggy Company
If your dog is very social, a second pet could help — but only if you're ready for the commitment. I’ve seen it work beautifully, but it takes time and proper introductions. Alternatively, setting up regular playdates with a neighbor’s dog can also do wonders.
Bring in Human Help
If you’re out for long hours, a trusted dog walker or pet sitter can break up the day. Even a quick walk or hangout session midday can ease separation anxiety. I’ve also done playdate swaps with friends — one of us watches the dogs while the other’s at work, and we switch the next day.
Doggy Daycare or Hotel
This isn’t for every dog, but if your pup loves company and playtime, doggy daycare can be a blast. Just make sure to scope out the place first — ask around, read reviews, and do a trial run if possible.
Don’t Forget the Basics
Always leave fresh water. A dog fountain is a great option — mine was fascinated by the bubbling water and drank more often. And if your dog is sensitive to sounds outside, a white noise machine can help muffle traffic or barking dogs nearby.
In the end, no single trick works for every dog — it’s about finding the right mix. What helped most for me was combining mental stimulation (like puzzles and treats) with comfort (a cozy space and familiar sounds). You know your dog best, so tweak things until you find your rhythm. And remember: it does get easier with time.